I have been jealous of Gretchen and her dreams and the different ways Poppy comes to her. It took me a week to recognize it, but he came to me last Thursday when I was bringing the little pine bench and handmade baskets into the house. I could just hear him saying, "Why don't be just go on out in the back yard and start a bonfire? You got any more money we can burn up?" It was classic Poppy, being sarcastic and funny at the same time. He was with me for that moment. He was with me.